Chad Kultgen Guest Blog on Women Tell All

Today is a bonus for all of you. One of my favorite writers is guest blogging here. Chad Kultgen is the author of some classic work that everyone should read and be slightly terrified in the best possible way. When I read The Average American Male, the people on the plane thought I was nuts, I was laughing and feeling ashamed at the same time hungover on a flight from Vegas.



While I knew he lives near where I used to in Beverly Hills and that he went to USC film school like I did, I recently discovered he watched this train wreck show. So I solicited him to write a post for Women Tell All.

Read below and follow him on TWITTER. Chad owns. Zack out.


Women Tell All – Chad Kultgen

The Women Tell All Episode is without a doubt the most useless episode of any season. It promises an opportunity for the women to have some long held questions answered by the bachelor himself and for us, the viewers, to get some answers from the women about certain moments in the show that left us curious or confused or angry or empty. And much like Juan Pablo himself the episode was not honest in this promise.

Chris Harrison opens the show by telling us that this Women Tell All Episode will feature, “The most memorable women from the most controversial season in bachelor history,” a hyperbole that is mimicked, if not outright stated verbatim, in virtually every season of the bachelor to open this episode. What follows, regrettably, is a tame recounting of the most mundane events of the season up to this point with only minimal attention paid to the culturally significant events from the show and from Juan Pablo’s statements outside the show.

But before the audience can even get to the disappointment of avoiding any meaningful discourse from the main cast of this season, we’re made to sit through Sean, the born again virgin bachelor from the prior season of the show, being emasculated by his new bride who claims that he ejaculated far too quickly on his wedding night. Then Chris Harrison does his best to emasculate himself and, by proxy, the entire male gender by saying “Welcome to the club buddy,” only to have Sean top it all off by telling a story about a sting ray attacking his genitals. I’m unsure if this was a move by the producers to make men seem less threatening after the season they’ve had with Juan Pablo or if Chris and Sean are truly that bad at being men. Either way, within the first two minutes of the show my seething rage is already full to capacity.

At this point it would be reasonable to think that we might get to the actual show. It would be within the realm of probability that on the Women Tell All Episode, one of the women might now tell at least one thing of the “All” that I’ve been led to believe they will eventually tell. Instead, we’re treated to the Muppets demeaning both the show and themselves by appearing with Juan Pablo, a publicly identified homophobe, as their new movie is promoted in an awkward scene that ends with Kermit and his evil twin performing what appears to be cunnilingus on Ms. Piggy simultaneously. And this, it turns out, will be the closest to any discourse about sex we’ll have all night aside from Sean’s open admission that he’s terrible at sex.

Finally, after returning from a commercial break in which every commercial is forced to play out within a Bachelor rose frame graphic lest we forget what we’ve tuned in to see, we see that every contestant is there. They are each seated and smiling, happy to be back in the spotlight for a brief encore in which they’re given just enough screen time to be further distilled into a the shallow stereotypes of themselves that we came to know on the show.

One of the chief complaints of several of the girls throughout this episode was that Juan Pablo didn’t get to know them, that he didn’t ask enough questions about them, that he didn’t get beyond the surface. But they fail to realize that this is the very nature of the show. It promises a chance to find deep and meaningful love, yet it only gives the contestants a series of weeks in which to do it. It claims support of the idea that the Bachelor is there to get to know these women and yet the show itself reduces the girls to titles like “Free Spirit” and “Dog Lover.”

And then the first question asked of the panel of failed daters is “What did you like about JP?” Their unanimous answer : “He’s super handsome.” In this moment we’re shown that they’re obviously just as shallow as he is, just as shallow as the show itself is. Not one, after being asked this question, mentioned anything about his personality. They each claimed that they enjoyed kissing him or seeing him play soccer or do some other physical activity. They fail to see that the very thing they most despise in Juan Pablo guides their own attraction to him. And again, this exact same lack of depth and substance is what drives the show itself.

If the point weren’t crystal clear, Chris Harrison asks the contestants, “You were attracted to him. Why wasn’t that enough?” And because the show has already established for us that Andi is something of a voice of reason, an unprecedented truth-teller where contestants are concerned she is allowed to say, “Looks can fade, ” which gets a few shots of knowing nods from older ladies in the audience. This is an obvious fact that most human beings are well aware of. But in this case, in the context of the show, any small piece of truth is dangled in front of the audience as though it were a precious gem so rare and beautiful that we should marvel at it.

Renee then reveals that she and Juan Pablo only ever really talked about their children. I’ve long held that each season of this show harbors at least one sociopath. Statistically one in twenty-five people is a sociopath or at least exhibits sociopathic tendencies. I theorize that this season’s sociopath is actually Juan Pablo and Renee’s revelation corroborates my theory. He’s incapable of talking about anything of substance where his own character is concerned because he has no substance. He’s only a manufactured version of what he thinks the public would consider a good parent. So in this case, he talks with another parent exclusively about his own child reasoning that this is what a good parent would do when, in fact, a good parent would more likely be spending time with their child instead of having sexual encounters with multiple women on national television.

Next the contestants have a brief conversation about Claire’s ocean rendezvous with Juan Pablo. Phrases like, “She goes swimming,” and “they go swimming in the ocean,” are used but no one ever says that they had sex. This is simply one more way the show forces not only the contestants, but the audience itself into a false frame of mind in which honesty can’t surface. Even in the context of this specific episode in which all questions are to be answered, the scenario cannot even be properly discussed. The show aims to uphold antiquated views on sex, relationships, gender roles and marriage even in the face of facts that everyone knows to be obvious.

What’s worse, though, is that although a few of the contestants claim that what Juan Palo did to Claire by shaming her the following morning was terrible and using his daughter as the method by which he shamed her was just as terrible, none of them speak about Claire’s reaction to it. Claire took the initiative to ask Juan Pablo to have sex with her. He willingly participated. Clearly his shaming of her the following morning was deplorable. What’s more deplorable to me is that the show and Claire’s fellow contestants seem to see nothing wrong with how she handled the situation. Claire never stood up for herself. She never told Juan Pablo that he was arrogant or wrong. She never even said that he was just as much to blame as she was if there was any blame at all.  Maybe she reacted as she did to stay in the competition for one more round. Maybe she actually was shamed enough by Juan Pablo to accept the blame. In either case, it remains disgusting on a basic level to me that not one girl said anything about the fact that Claire didn’t stand up for herself.

As Sharleen takes her spot on the hot seat Chris Harrison declares, “You’re the most intriguing person we’ve had. Your relationship with our bachelor, I’ve never seen anything like it.” To which Sharleen replies, “I was honest the entire time.” This what Chris Harrison has never seen – honesty from a contestant from the beginning. And I have to agree with him. In every prior season it seems that all of the contestants will do anything to prove that as soon as they meet the bachelor or bachelorette they can’t think of spending their life with anyone else despite knowing them for less than a day. Sharleen truly was the first contestant to view the situation logically and react honestly.

Chris goes on to quote Sharleen on the show as she said things like, “No cerebral connection,” and, “I wish I was dumber.” Then he asks, “What do those things mean?” We know what these things mean, Chris. They mean that Juan Pablo is very, very stupid. But similar to the way in which Claire is made to accept the blame placed on her by Juan Pablo, we see Sharleen accept the blame implied in Chris’s question, “What do these things mean?” Sharleen says, “I think too much. I can’t shut it off,” instead of using her self-professed  honesty and saying that Juan Pablo is too stupid to have a meaningful conversation. There is some inherent tone on the show that I think all contestants feel, certainly more with women contestants on the Bachelor than with men on the Bachelorette. They feel as though they have to prove their value or their worth and any misstep is their fault. It’s made clear in Sharleen’s answer. The fault clearly lies in Juan Pablo’s stupidity but she accepts the blame by telling us that she thinks too much, which is obviously absurd.

Renee’s  hot seat was as boring a hot seat as maybe I’ve ever seen. When asked, “What was that connection?” she essentially claims that it was them both having kids, which means that she could have the same connection with any single dad. When pressed on the issue she says, “I don’t know. I don’t know,” which is followed up by Chris Harrison saying, “It’s hard to define.” This exact exchange can almost fully describe my reaction to people when they ask me why I watch the show.

Despite everyone defending the process and claiming that it is not a competition, that it is not a game, Renee goes on to explain that she was “behind,” that her relationship with Juan Pablo was slow paced, that she was the last one to kiss him. This, of course, gives more credence to the idea that it is a game, that it is a very regimented series of events that must occur in a specific sequence and at certain specific times if a contestant is to have any chance to win in the end.  A contestant must kiss by a certain date or show. A contestant must say “I love you” by a certain date or show, etc. Renee knew she wasn’t playing the game at the same speed as the other girls and because of this I think she didn’t get as emotionally invested which is what allowed her to walk away from the experience having learned something other than how to cry on camera.

Andi’s hot seat was terrible. She gave no new information about the most controversial night in bachelor history, as Chris Harrison would have us believe. She failed to enlighten us at all about any new details related to her decision to leave. She only really mentioned Juan Pablo’s negativity and that he wasn’t grateful for his opportunity. Once again, there’s no actual talk of sex but it is implied a few times when Andi describes Juan Pablo telling her about his prior overnight date with Claire. I don’t know why I get outraged by this after having seen as many seasons as I have, but there’s something so basically absurd about prohibiting the discussion of sex where relationships are concerned that I’m still offended every time it happens on this show.

And then Chris Harrison proceeds to make one of the strangest comments that he might have ever made by saying, “Everyone’s had that date where you pretend to be asleep.” It’s obviously strange but it’s interesting in a few ways. The first is that one of Andi’s main complaints is that Juan Pablo was his dishonesty with her and yet she chose to fake sleep rather than talk to him on her last night there, an act that’s clearly dishonest. It’s also interesting in that it reflects the basic idea of the show that you must be dishonest with yourself and with everyone else on the show in order to win. If Andi knew in that moment in the fantasy suite that Juan Pablo wasn’t the guy for her, why did she stay and why did she pretend to be asleep? Why didn’t she just leave or at least talk to Juan Pablo, or even really sleep like a normal person. Instead she faked unconsciousness for some inexplicable reason and that reason is seemingly that dishonesty in that situation was the best thing she could come up with. It’s just one more way the show itself upholds outdated ideas of what a relationship should be and of what a woman should be in the presence of a man – silent, avoiding conflict, pretending to be asleep.

Andi then invalidates any forward progress she might have made the following morning when she opens her eyes that she apparently kept shut all night without ever entering unconsciousness by saying, “The things he said were entirely inappropriate and rude but he wasn’t mean to me. That should be clear, like he wasn’t mean to me,” and then one sentence later saying, “In no way was that funny to me. It was mean and it was hurtful towards me.” It’s as though she feels obligated to remove blame from Juan Pablo, just as every other woman has so far but Andi can’t quite help invalidating her own false defense that he wasn’t mean by contradicting herself a few words later.

And she wraps up her hot seat appearance by saying, “Everything was under this guise of honesty and that really frustrated me.” This describes the entire show sweet Andi.

And then we come to Juan Pablo himself – El Bachelor. In much the same way it seemed like the women felt obligated to do some damage control on his behalf, he attempts to finish the job by insisting that, “We can be friends,” which raises very little if any objection from the contestants and even gets some sincere and hopeful smiles from the live audience. Of all the lies told on the show this season, this one may be the most egregious. Even Juan Pablo seems to not believe this as he’s saying it. He shoots a forced smile to the audience giving us proof of a phenomenon known as “Duper’s Delight,” which is one of the rare emotions exhibited by a sociopath. It’s extreme and momentary elation felt when the sociopath becomes aware of a lie in progress that seems to be working. In many cases the sociopath will be unable to withhold an actual smile or smirk with this awareness of success.

When asked if he has any regrets this season he claims to have none, which means the shaming of Claire for engaging in mutually consensual sex was as it should have been in Juan Pablo’s mind. Most of the rest of the first half of Juan Pablo’s time in the hot seat was spent discussing the merit and meaning of his designation of the two mother contestants as his “Special Ones,” which was pointless.

Juan Pablo’s second segment in the hot seat yielded nothing more of value. Andi gave a half-hearted attempt to catch him in an admission that he wasn’t really there for a wife which he avoided by stating basic truths about trying to make connections with the contestants. Sharleen defended him and her own image as the “most interesting” contestant by saying that she felt he did, in fact, get to know her and further offering that maybe they had a different relationship than the other girls. Lucy, the once proud free spirit, dirties her hands in the conversation with some forced outrage by exclaiming, “It’s not a game – this is a relationship!” as though any viewer or contestant could ever possibly believe that.

And finally it seems like we might get to something of value, some cultural commentary that is sorely needed when Kelly the “Dog Lover” bring ups the homophobic comments Juan Pablo made earlier this season. He apologizes and blames it on context saying, “I love gay people. I respect them because they were born that way,” unaware that the designation of being born “that way” and even feeling the need to say “I respect them,” invalidates the idea behind what he’s saying. Although it’s veiled, his statements are still homophobic and once again one of the contestants feels the need to defend him. This time it’s the “most interesting” contestant, Sharleen, whom claims that she found him to be open-minded even though no one else has been provided with any evidence of this.

And possibly the most disturbing thing Juan Pablo says about the matter, and easily the most evidentiary in favor of him being a homophobe comes when he tells Kelly that he’s not going to take four minutes of the show to explain to her why he’s not a homophobe, but he’d rather take an hour after the show to tell her in person. How would it ever take an hour to explain to anyone why you’re not a homophobe? It obviously wouldn’t. Furthermore if you ever need to explain to anyone why you’re not a homophobe (or a racist or a sexist) then you probably are.

Juan Pablo’s estimation that taking a long time to discuss a subject makes his intent more serious is simply an error on his part. Most sociopaths will try to mimic what they feel is the correct emotional reaction to any given situation without actually feeling the emotion. Here, he’s very obviously attempting to seem very concerned about the matter by allotting what he thinks is a serious amount of time, one hour, to the subject. Instead it reveals his true nature of deeply ingrained homophobia.

The obligatory bloopers reel brings us to a moment of levity on the heels of what could have been a decent public debate about how the show is harboring and supporting a deplorable homophobe but wasn’t.

As Chris Harrison moves us into the final phases of the Women Tell All Episode he asks the contestants how they think it will end up and Kat says literally, “It’s anyone’s game – I hate to use the word game because it’s not a game.” And yet it is. We know this so intrinsically, as does she and every contestant on this strange game show that she can’t even stop herself from literally using the word “game” to describe the situation.

And finally we arrive at the sneak peek for the final episode of this season. Phrases like, “ Every little girl dreams of their wedding,”  “fairy tale,”  “down on one knee,” “ring on my finger” not only reinforce all of the outdated ideas about gender and romance that the show rams down our throat every season but one of the final lines used in the sneak peek,  “I can pick out all the negative things and dwell on them but I don’t want to lose this,” proves that even the final two contestants, the ones who should at this point be completely in love with Juan Pablo, view this as a game that must be won or lost. And the prize to be won is shown to us – a giant diamond ring. It’s a gleaming symbol of a woman’s value and it must be given to her by a man. One contestant will claim ultimate validation from the very man who abused her psychologically and the other will remain without value, broken and crushed on her way home alone and finally out of the spotlight where we assume she’ll pick up the pieces and move on with her life, unless she’s proclaimed the next bachelorette. Time will tell.



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18 Responses to Chad Kultgen Guest Blog on Women Tell All

  1. Nary

    Awesome blog, Completely enjoyed the brutal honesty. As for the girls accusing JPabs of not being there to find a wife, just a girlfriend…well, that is a joke. No way in hell half ( or more ) of those girls went on that show looking for love. They were looking for their 15 mins of fame. As for Andi, she was auditioning to be the next bachelorette. A million to one she is gonna do that show to to try to become a Nancy Grace. She has zero interest in looking for a hubby or continuing on in her current profession as ADA of Altlanta City. Just wait till it is her turn to be thrown under the bus by the contestants of her show. What goes around comes around, and her 15 minutes are gonna be over faster than you can say “case closed”.

  2. Timmikesue

    AWSOME job guest blogging! Loved it…thank you!

  3. JuanPsEgo

    Holy crap that was a boring xss recap. I don’t come here for some undergrad’s politically correct midterm paper for his a Women’s Studies 101 class. Loosen up, buddy, and make some jokes. If this kind of writing gets you action nowadays we’re in worst shape than I thought. ” Gender roles, blah, blah, blah.” Blech. Remind me not to read this guy’s boring, rote, university indoctrinated fluff again.

    • admin

      I am not one to tell someone what to like, but please read Average American Male. Chad is probably the funniest dude there is.

    • USCgradgirl

      Sure it was a different, drier style of writing, but it still got me thinking…and that’s what I read blogs for anyways. I loved hearing a different, more academic approach, and can definitely see the remnants of USC’s teaching style in this piece since I have been taught to think about shows like this in a very similar way. I thought it was a very provocative piece, and if you did not feel the same, then you must’ve not read it that closely or payed enough attention to it to be making those sorts of statements. You should try engaging with the material before knocking it, or you come across as extremely ignorant. And, if you want to make fun of Juan Pablo, why don’t you just watch the show and come up some jokes on your own? He does make it excruciatingly easy, after all.

  4. Muppets

    By now, we’re starting to expect the muppets.

    I agree with so much of this blog post — thank you. The girls complain of Juan Pablo changing his rules so much, and then flip-flop just as much as he does. They want honesty, they can’t handle honesty. He’s mean, he’s not mean.
    However, what kept coming to mind when they all complained about him not getting to know them enough, and how they all wanted to be treated individually, is that he was just not that into them. He didn’t waste time getting to know the ones he didn’t like and they didn’t seem to grasp that. Sharleen felt he tried to get to know her, because he actually really liked her. I see that he has flaws, but I also feel like he is human and it would be difficult to handle being on this show, even though you willingly submit to it.

    • USCgradgirl

      I totally agree with what you wrote here in the second paragraph. I feel like in order to mentally prepare themselves for the pain of getting rid of girls they’ve gotten to know and like, the Bachelors MUST in their heads begin to actually only really like one girl and simply be faking it with the others. I feel that Juan Pablo probably was only really into Sharleen and, like most normal people act when they really like someone, sort of tuned all the other girls out. But since he was in the weird, forced environment of the Bachelor, he had to fake it with all the other girls– though I’m sure he was still able to “pull himself together” to have some sexy flings with Claire and the like. Hence, him telling Andy that she made it to the final 3 only by “default,” is not that surprising to me. If he is as his mother said, “very honest” to the point of being rude, I’m sure he just couldn’t contain his honesty at that point since he was so close to the end and eliminating the unwanted choices anyways. He probably just kind of gave up on the gig in the safe harbor of the fantasy suite, knowing that these last few nights were the home stretch. I mean, I kind of feel for the poor guy. He was really into Sharleen, and she into him, but due to the constricting environment of the Bachelor show, they were not able to pursue a happy, healthy, and slowly developing relationship. If Sharleen had only been able to take her time and not rush into an engagement after only a few weeks of filmed dating, it could’ve worked out. Yet, poor JP had his little heart broken because the show could not accommodate this very normal dating situation. But what could he do? It’s not like they would allow him to stop production and send all the other girls home so that he could pursue a potential relationship with Sharleen–who was unsure if this relationship would result in marriage. NO–that’s not the point of the game show! So instead, JP has his heart broken for no other reason except the fact that the odd show they were introduced through and are now entrapped by regulates their relationship and will not account for unsure relationships moving at a pace too slow for their liking. JP must simply essept the fact that the one girl who he actually could’ve had something with on the entire show has just left to go home, vacating her spot and leaving it open for the other potential wives (whom JP finds inferior to Sharleen) to fill. So of course he is going to act disinterested, detached, removed… Wouldn’t you be like that? I don’t know, it just kind of makes sense to me. And this idea is further validated by the fact that when Andi left from the fantasy suite episode, JP was not upset in the least. He tried to come up with some BS about how if Andi had simply told him that it wasn’t going to work between them he would’ve been “crushed”–nobody actually says that they are “crushed” when they are crushed–, but the fact that she argued with him was what made him indifferent to her self-removal; let’s be honest, JP– you did not give 2 flying f*cks either way. And what I’m saying is that I don’t think he does with the remaining two girls either. Sure, he’s attracted to Clare who throws herself onto him–I mean, a man’s gotta get some, am I right? And I think he’s trying to like the idea of Nikki as a wife. I really think he thinks she sounds great on paper: hot, wholesome Southern blonde with a great family and a love for children. She does. But just because she WOULD be the perfect stepmom for Camila doesn’t necessarily mean that she is in his heart–and he knows this. But the show would never let him admit this. Oh no, the show–and let’s face it, his age–are forcing him to find some woman who would be a suitable wife. Notice that I said “suitable wife,” not a wife who he is in love with or even a perfect-fit wife, just someone who would work with his family, lifestyle, and aesthetic. Since his one shot at actual love has now been tossed out the window–bye bye Sharleen!–he’s forced to settle. In reality, one is never forced to settle, although people often do. But in Bachelor reality, this is usually the only option given and the option that makes the resultant engagements and weddings so rarely last. The sum of this argument is that yes, the Bachelor is about superficiality and false assumptions about marriage and love and never ACTUALLY about love. It’s basically the ideal show for men looking to fill their home with that perfect trophy wife, who looks good, doesn’t say much, and fits the bill. Other than that, it’s worthless. Yet, it still baffles me as to how this show can so flamboyantly flaunt its hypocrisy by empowering women like Emily Maynard to lash out at Ryan Bowers for stating his criteria for a trophy wife and women with a backbone like Andi for walking away when they just know its “not gonna work.” But maybe that’s what makes this show so intriguing, so massively popular, and what makes it precisely the game that cannot be won. May the odds be ever in your favor…

      • Sapphosky

        This post is going to be a rambling and belated one:

        I stumbled upon this blog after watching the Bachelor. As a first time viewer, I was a shocked by the vitriol and hatred directed towards JPG. I tried to figure out what it was that riled people up so much, as I found him quite reasonable. As a non-native speaker of English and someone, who has lived in four different countries for two years or more each, I could see that some of the issues with him were that of language and culture. (Awkward sentence, sorry!)

        I, too, thought that he liked Sharleen from the start. Once she left the game, he went through the motions and settled for a sensible compromise with Nikki. “Let’s see how it goes” after a few hours in total seems reasonable in the real world. It is, of course, a slap in the face of the show and its makers. So they turned on him, orchestrating a turning of the tide and eventually throwing him under the bus: the editing as well as the way ABC dealt with JPG made that quite obvious. So by the time WTA was taped, JPG was most probably well over the entire thing. Disillusion was followed by anger, disappointment and resentment. ABC was mad at him for not doing his job and JPG was mad for not getting the prize (Sharleen, DWTS, more positive press and a future in entertainment?). Fair enough.

        From what I can gather, his biggest “mistake” was a lack of research into the workings of this programme. It’s a job that comes with opportunity, and it is earned with selling your body and soul. Once you’ve made the Faustian deal, know the terms and conditions. In order to game a system, you need to know it’s workings.

        As a TV journalist, I have learnt quite a bit about how sausages are made. So I can only imagine how strenuous the role of “the Bachelor” is: the hours of shooting, the amount of senseless interviews, the emotional drain of having to fake affection or attraction. When you’re not allowed to do the thing that is “honest” and “fair” in the real world, you have to resort to props. By week 2, JPG most probably had a very clear idea who he liked. Maybe he had his no. 1, maybe he had a top 3, or was deciding between 2. Maybe he thought that two or three more women seemed cool and fun. But there is no way that he can tell all the other women to beat it by then. A show has to be produced, some more women have to be strung along.

        I admit: my ego would be severely wounded, were I to be one of those “not so interesting girls” in his eyes. I would need a little time to lick my wounds… but with a little time, I would also come to see that it’s not his or my fault. As JPG said: you cannot force someone to like you. Either you like someone or you don’t. The kindest, most beautiful person may just not be my type – that does not devalue that kindest, most beautiful person, and it does not make me a bad person. It’s just the way it is.

        Lastly, I’d like to say one thing: it’s easy for us viewers to blame reality TV contestants for their fate: you should know by now. And as I said, JPG could have done more research. By now, reality TV fame is a well-known phenomenon. At the same time, I have come to realise that precedents seldom work as prevention. Television has been around even longer than reality TV, everyone watches it and should be coignezant of its problems and traps. But alas, even the smartest people often have to be warned and be made aware that they can expose themselves a little bit more than they think. It’s an old saying, almost banal because it’s so evident: let’s judge other people with the same generosity as we would like to be judged.

        • admin

          Sorry, I stopped reading when I realized you were still acknowledging Juan Pablo existed. I don’t care anymore. Leave him to his fake career.

  5. Casey

    Nice read. Way to bring it all home in the last paragraph.
    The beauty of this big-ass rock is that it is void of any significance. For once I’m rooting for the most annoying contestant to “win” here because… (crickets)… frankly… they deserve each other.

  6. White WAPOLO

    The Women Tell All is always the worst episode, and at the same time, it is the best. It is the worst because nothing real ever happens in it, other than petty bickering, insecure jealousies come out, and people who should know better come looking for closure on an issue that is already closed.

    It is the best because people come looking for closure when they have no reason to, and it makes the whole thing one ridiculous conversation from beginning to end. Plus, the irony is that none of them really want closure from this phase of their lives, they want it to carry on on the nets, in blogs, at the local clubs, at the reunion parties, or wherever else they can stretch their 3.5 minutes of D status. But mostly, they want to parlay it into a gig as the Bachelorette.

  7. JV

    Great guest post! I was sad that we were going to miss out on commentary for this episode, so it was a nice suprise to have a guest recap. Thanks!

  8. steve

    please never let this guy write again. if all he can do is rip the show then just dont watch. we enjoy the inherent humor of the show which is why we read this blog. for this guy to just rip on the show ans not see it that way is just annoying

  9. AMY

    I am practically PISSING myself in anticipation of finding out what you make of this train wreck. THERE WAS A HELICOPTER! Are you happy now? Jesus christ that was the most entertainly awful and completely watch-through-my-fingers episode of reality tv I have ever seen.

  10. km

    well done. so very cerebral, basic, yet informative. these ego maniacs looking for their 3 seconds need to be called out. I need to read your book

  11. It amazes me that you can write about such an eloquent and interesting way no matter what the topic! This post in particular shows off your talent as a writer. Good advice!

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